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To the person who needs to go, Even if this takes you by surprise, you should know that it isn't absurd for me to scribble down this letter, especially at this point of time in my life. I'm not blaming you or taking out my frustration on you by doing this. I'm doing this because it's been too long now, and it's time that you go away from my life. You won't come across me saying this every day to you. It took me a lot of courage to admit that things would have been much more peaceful in my life, without you in it. There was a time when you knew every little detail of my day and you were an integral part of my everyday routine! I couldn't go without you. I'm not saying that you won't cross my mind or that I won't feel the urge to talk to you. But now, when I know things, take the words from my mouth- 'you need to leave me alone. The funny thing is, there was a time when all I believed was you. And then, there is now! I don't even know w

Having many men behind you doesn't mean you are a great woman or a beautiful woman. Remember, low prices attract customers. The cheaper the price... more clients to come. The easier it gets. More men will come after you. Be a worthy, intelligent, strong and matured woman... The woman of God are not beautiful by fashion or by wearing famous branded make-ups, but by the character of God that dwells in her. Beauty comes from within and reflects on the outside ❤️

Dear Readers Being single isn't a time to look for love, use that time to work on yourself and grow as an individual 💃 Your age doesn't define your maturity, your grades doesn't define your intelligence, and rumors do not define who you are ✂️ The pain of marrying the wrong person is wores than your present fear of not getting married. Marriage is not a competition.Take your time-fall inlove- Nurse your ambition- Groom your relationship; because forever is too long to be unhappy. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT IT'S BETTER TO WAIT LONG THAN TO MARRY TO WRONG. Don't rush something you want to last FOREVER 💥 Always be the best person you can be.Be kind even when you are tried. Be understanding even when you are angry . If you feel like you're losing everything, remember that trees lose their leaves every years and still stand tall and wait for better days to come. Life is like a camera.Focus on what is important. capture the good times and if things do not work out

 SOME SOCIAL RULES THAT MAY HELP YOU: 1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to; 2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes. 3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. 4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem; 5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public; 6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time; 7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someon

I’m sorry if I cancel or say I cannot go. I do not mean to disappoint. I’m trying hard, you know. I’ve eggs in many baskets and I want to do it all. I’m juggling and struggling. I’m so afraid to fall. I want to keep you happy and all the others too, But the truth is that I’m failing To keep up with all of you. I care so much and want to share Your highs and lows and more, But it’s hard to be as present As the friend I was before. These little beings that we’ve made Consume my energy. And if I ever get a minute, I crave some silence to ‘just BE’.. .. Be alone and be at rest, A luxury I rarely get, And while I want to know what’s happening, I need to just forget.. ...The jobs, the tasks, and all the roles I daily have to play, And to spend time with my littles Who won’t always be this way. I’m surviving, never thriving. My heads barely above water. My priorities now need to be my son and darling daughter. So, again, I’m truly sorry If I sometimes don’t reply. I love you dearly,

Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship: Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved. Date nights are a must. Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in. Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important. Learn each others love language. We all don’t perceive love the same way. Go to bed mad sometimes. Don’t force a resolution. Sleeping on it does help. When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time. It will get boring sometimes. Every couple goes through the “boring” stage. It’s normal. It will fade. This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in. Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa. It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health. It’s okay to go to couples counselling. It helps. It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing. Talk about money. Tal