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1. When talking with others, make sure you talk more about what the other party has, don't always talk about what you have. 2. When you have a meal with someone better or has higher position than you, don’t try to pay the bill in front of them, instead find an excuse to go pay for the meal silently. 3. Try not to ask for help for minor matters. If you really need to ask for help, be sure to send a red envelope afterwards. Whether people want it or not is one thing, but you are willing to give or not is another thing. 4. Don’t tell the truth to everyone, because most people can’t accept the truth. Don't be too direct, if people want to hear something good, speak good words. 5. Never trust anyone’s promise, especially the promise that being made from temporary feelings. 6. Be selfished sometimes so that you will not be harmed. Besides your parents and money that will not betray you, anyone can betray you in anything and anytime. 7. Try not to put too much affec

Your beautiful romantic relationship will be ruined if you are too possessive. Your insecurities, your past trauma, your trust issues, your fear of someone might take your man, have low self-esteem, and the fear of rejection are many factors that lead you to be over possessive. Sometimes you feel like being possessive is the best way to show your love towards your partner. But it's wrong. Constantly, when you show jealous behavior will end up questioning and doubting their loyalty which will weaken the relationship. It will also hurt your partner and then it will wear out the trust, respect, and love towards you. If you think, you are suffocating your partner, it is time to learn how to stop being possessive before it is too late. Stop making a big deal about the past, live your own life, and don't be overbearing(set the boundaries), don't let your jealousy eat you alive, practice mindfulness, and exercise breathing, try to find the root of the problems are some ways to

Simplicity means when you are appreciating even the small thing. Then you will start leading your life in the most simple one. It also counts that your actions and thoughts are not influenced by wealth, fame, your loved ones, your friends, and your relatives instead of staying true to yourself. You will be content with what you have, you will always choose a peaceful and calm mind. To achieve this comfort, you have to turn out to be the most forgiving and loving person. But the main reason why you feel misery is when you try to compare yourself with others. When you compare, you end up bringing your energy down instead of raising yourself. The other ways are when you feel jealous of others' success, when you keep a grudge, and when you gossip about others. Then do you know what will happen? you will clutter your mind with negativity. Your life experiences become painful, your relationships become difficult, and then every situation becomes challenging when you inculcate your mi

Can we turn a delay into our favor? There are times when you put lots of your energy and time to achieve something but every time you work on it, you don't see the desired results. No matter how much time it takes, you will never quit because your determination is strong enough. Then you will try it all over again whenever it fails. At a certain point, you will feel like giving up when something didn't go as per your wish and takes too long to achieve. You feel like a loser because your efforts and energy are going in vain. At that time, you will adopt negative behaviors such as drinking, smoking, forming gangs, and sometimes abusing drugs. At such an hour, believe in yourself. You can use this line to yourself. "Just one more time before I am going to regret it in life". Then you will never get room to regret in your life. You will be satisfied in your life by fulfilling your dreams. Note: Be stubborn, be hungry, focus, and strive when it comes to your dream. Th

Every day, you are going through different phases of your life. One day, you will feel so overwhelmed, energetic, strong, and ready to face any kind of challenges in your life. You will feel as if you are a hero. During that time, you feel like you can handle everything and solve any problem that you encounter in your life. But on another day, you don't want to get out of your bed. You feel too weak even to grab a glass of water. You will spend the whole day in bed still nothing feels alright. And that's life. Life will throw you both rough and good days. Don't be too harsh on yourself during tough times. Learn to shower yourself with love and support every single day, whether it is good or bad. Learn to accept that life has ups and downs and that is what makes it an amazing journey. Note: I have read this somewhere "life's journey is not to arrive at your grave site safely in a well-preserved body but rather to skid in sideways, completely worn out, and say, ho

I am learning about the significance of blessings and curses. What types of curses exist among your people?” “There is a big curse that I know about that has come over all people.” An African proverb says, “Not everyone will be rich, but one thing everyone shares is death.” “There is a curse of death over all people.” “To know how to overcome a curse, you often need to know the cause of the curse—how it came into being.” Tell Adam and Eve story. Make sure to tell about God saying if they ate of the fruit they would die. We read in the story that Adam and Eve ate of the fruit that God forbade them to eat. As a result, humanity brought a curse upon itself due to their disobedience. The curse is not just because of Adam. We all sin. Therefore, the curse of death remains. Rom 5:12 – “Sin came into the world through one man, and death through sin, and so death spread to all men because all sinned.” God does not want people to stay under the curse. He has provided a way to reverse the curs