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1.和别人说话的时候，一定要多说对方有什么，不要总说自己有什么。  2.当你和比你更好或地位更高的人吃饭时，不要试图在他们面前付账，而是找借口默默地去付饭钱。   3.尽量不要为小事寻求帮助。如果真的需要求助，请务必事后发红包。人们要不要是一回事，你愿意付出与否是另一回事。  4、不要对所有人说真话，因为大多数人无法接受真相。不要太直接，如果人们想听到好话，就说好话。   5.永远不要相信任何人的诺言，尤其是凭一时的感情做出的诺言。  6. 有时自私一点，以免受到伤害。除了你的父母和不会背叛你的金钱之外，任何人都可以随时随地背叛你 。  7、尽量不要对任何人过多的感情，不要和任何人过分亲近，保持中立，保持理性，只要能给别人带来不可或缺的好处，再冷也没有人会甩掉你。因为人们并不真正需要感情，他们更喜欢利益。不要总是把感情放在每件事上。有时候，无论你多么真诚，人们只关心对他们有什么好处。我希望我能早点学会这个，我希望你现在能学会。

I was hours old when my birth mother threw me away by a dumpster. She was a drug addict, I’ve since been told, and couldn’t handle looking after me. When I was discovered, the police called child services who immediately put me into foster care. My foster parents took in more than 100 foster kids during their lives, but I was one of only two they adopted. They were nearing 70, so adopting a newborn baby wasn’t part of their plans, but having seen the ordeal I’d been put through, they didn’t want me to go through the care system. They lived in a small rural city in Florida where everyone knows everyone, so the kids at school had heard my story even before I had. They bullied me and called me Dumpster Baby. That’s when I had to talk with my father; when I was 10 he sat me down and told me about my birth situation. I thought: did somebody really throw me away? Am I trash or a person? It bothered me for a long time but I overcame it. I had a mother and father who loved me. My parents’

Ahead of me the hallway light flickered on and off until going out completely, shrouding me in darkness. The only light was from the moon shining through the tiny hallway window, casting the old wooden staircase at the end of the hall in a silver luminous glow. “Where are you?” I asked when I reached the end of the hall. No reply came, only a soft giggle from the top of the stairs so I began climbing up the narrow steps to the next floor. I had heard rumors of a forgotten child living in the abandoned house and being the new detective in town I investigated. The next floor looked as if no one had been there for centuries; the air was hot and damp. Cobwebs covered almost every inched of the ceiling. Dust had built up into a thick carpet the covering floor. Mould lined the walls and a vase on the hallway table contained dead flowers that turned to dust at the slightest touch. I followed the giggling and pattering feet though the hallway until they stopped at an old wooden door. I hes

Learn about mental health Tips & info Build your skills Quizzes, games & activities Connect with other youth Support forums & real-life stories Get crisis support right now Text or message Work wi Sarah’s story on discrimination as a Muslim young pers Sarah (she / her) has been working at  Crisis Text Line powered by Kids Help Phone  since 2018. She lives in Montreal, Quebec. She’s also completing her PhD is Psychology. Her focus is on access to mental health care for racialized groups in Canada. Here, Sarah shares her experiences of growing up in Montreal while wearing the hijab and navigating being a Muslim young person in Canada. Important note: Kids Help Phone knows that conversations about culture, racism and discrimination can vary in provinces and territories. We think it’s important to publish stories that reflect experiences across Canada. We’ve encouraged the writer of this piece to share their voice authentically and use the language that makes the most sense for

  Abeeku’s story Abeeku describes being discriminated against because of his race when booking gigs with his band. We explain how the Equal Opportunity Act relates to his situation, and how the Commission can help people who have a similar experience. The new owner said that our gigs attracted too many people from the African community and that he was worried about how their other patrons felt. I asked him if he was kidding. He said he wasn’t." “I play drums in a band, and we have gigs at a few venues around town. Usually we attract a decent crowd, and the venues we play at are very supportive. Recently, one of our regular venues changed hands, and the new owners said they wouldn’t be booking us anymore. I asked why, and the new owner said that our gigs attracted too many people from the African community and that he was worried about how their other patrons felt. I asked him if he was kidding. He said he wasn’t. A friend had made a complaint to  the Commission  before, so I got i

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